Mixed Volleyball Issue

First of all I would like to say,this is my personal blog that I can write anything I want.If you think it is wasting your time to read this,please do not proceed.

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Isu mixed volleyball dlm mana-mana Malaysian Games kat UK yg sering diperkatakan dan tak putus-putus mendapat komen,teguran daripada pelbagai pihak.

For me as a volleyball player since I was kid until now,personally I saw this matter,first when I knew that is how Malaysian Societies in the UK have it for Malaysian Games,is a stunning issue.I haven’t been in mixed team before.Nevertheless, because of my great passion in this filed,I don’t mind at all.

I love volley so much.My statement,”It’s my life.It’s my choice.” became an issue instead.People say I am such a liberal person.Say what you want to say.In fact,all the matches like football,badminton,swimming in SUKMA,SEA Games,or whutever,all are worldly things.Liberalisme.Then,no more watching Man U vs Chelsea after this.No more watching any movies in YouTube or at any cinemas.That’s nothing to do with your akhirat life.

Saya rasa seperti hak asasi saya sebagai manusia dinoda.Mereka tdk berada di tempat saya.Apa mereka tahu hanya nak tegur itu ini.Teguran mereka ada asasnya berdasarkan konsep Hayaa’ (malu) seperti yg cuba disampaikan oleh seorang akhi.Baguslah kalau niat mereka menegur sbb utk membetulkan apa yg salah di mata mereka,apa yg salah di fikiran mereka,apa yg mereka fikir lari daripada jalan Islam.

Jika isu malu yg diketengahkan,fine.Malu is about that particular people.Soal memilih jalan mana yg seseorang nak, bkn ditentukan oleh sesiapa,melainkan org tu sendiri.Islam tak tegah pun nak main sukan,tp meletakkan malu sebagai dinding.Kalau sy nk pilih utk terlibat dlm sukan ni,it’s on my own shoulder,it’s my choice.Not involving anybody else.Saya bknnya dedah aurat pun which is saya tahu adalah larangan Allah.Sefaham saya,Allah tak larang pun kita nk buat ape yg kita suka,kalau benda tu bkn la benda yg jelas di larang oleh agama dan jaga batas syari’at.

Timbul pulak antara “‘Azimah dan Rukhsah”.Hurm,indeed,if you choose jalan taqwa,you will choose ‘Azimah.Otherwise,Rukhsah.It depends on a person.Syurga ada banyak,mengikut tahap iman masing-masing.In fact,syurga adalah rahmah dari Allah,bkn diberikan kpd manusia yg hanya kuat beribadat semata-mata.

Kalau mixed football confirm saya tak masuk encik.Nampak sgt la haghu nyer main mixed football camtu.Saya pun tahu malu dan segan jugak.But I can’t help myself when it comes to volley since it has been my passion and part of myself for ages.For those who know me since school or college,they know how keen I am in sport,especially volley.Saya sanggup pertaruhkan SPM saya hanya kerana minat yg mendalam terhadap volley,utk teruskan perjuangan membawa nama sekolah ke peringkat nasional.Perlanggaran mmg akan berlaku masa permainan.Tapi takde lah kerap.Awak bukannya selalu langgar team mate awak masa main tu.Kalau ye,tu namanya games yg kacau.

Saya faham,point nye ialah isu mixed tu je.Bkn isu volley as a game.Kalau ada women only punye volley,sure takde masalah.Cuma,saya tak nak biarkan keingingan saya terpendam gitu aje hanya disebabkan isu mixed volley.Dah tu je yg ada utk Malaysian Games.Nak fight utk women only volley siapalah saya.Bkn geng MSSM pun.At least saya membantu guyz yg lain utk masuk games tu.Minimum 2 girlz should be in each team.Kalau takde,tak leh main.Kesian plak kpd yg mmg berbakat tu,sbb takde girlz yg join team,semua tak dpt masuk competition.Anyway,it’s juz a small part of it.Really small…apa org boleh kata tu,”Alasan~”.Huh,kata lah ape2 aje….

Hendak tak hendak,kita kena terima jugak yg manusia ni pelbagai.Kalau semua manusia corak pemikiran dia sama je,tak unik la seseorang tu.Dunia ni kalau satu kaler je warna merah,hidup sgt la bosan.Takde sistem lampu isyarat kat jalan tu.Lembu pun tk tahu mana rumput.Kepelbagaian manusia dlm berfikir dan membuat keputusan adalah anugerah.Tak semua org akan pilih jalan yg sama.Dan,tak semua org akan buat benda yg betul.Ok kalau dorang nk kata cara sy salah,fine Saya terima.Tapi,sy tetap saya.Berpegang pd prinsip sendiri tak apa.Kita kena tegas dgn pendirian kita.Tapi ada je org nk argue prinsip kita.Kalau bukak tudung atas prinsip hidup,”It’s my own life,it’s my choice” mmg la totally salah.Sbb jelas dan terang lagi bersuluh prinsip tu melanggar apa yg Allah dah wajibkan.Tp bersukan tak salah pun,cuma caranya je sket tak betul serta melibatkan soal hati dan taqwa je.

One who wants to bring himself close to Allah will do something that Allah like,and avoid something that Allah doesn’t like.Maybe this is a way that Allah doesn’t like.That doesn’t mean I don’t want to bring myself closer to Allah.But as I said,every people has his own choice.Let’s look at people who dress up.Allah like this particular dressing code,but people still put on what they like according to what they desires,their keen…what can you say to these people?You can’t determine what people should put on their bodies,definitely no! What you can do is just tell them what is good and what is not.And the rest is up to them,which one they want to opt.

Life is about experiencing and exploring.If some people can choose to go to cinema theatre to spend his leisure time,to go to Alton Tower for fun and entertainment, why can’t I opt to choose my own path of life for my own leisure?! That’s not fair! Sama je sbnrnya,awak pegi panggung wayang tu,campur laki pompuan dok dlm satu ruang tu,bergelap pulak tu, atau pegi Alton Tower hanya utk suka-suka,it’s about your worldly life jgk kan...?

Saya pernah berkata kpd seorang kakak yg mmg tak setuju jgk sy terlibat dgn mixed volley ni,”Tgk la kak.Bila sy dh dapat hidayah Allah utk betul2 berhenti dr sukan volley ni,sy quit.Selagi peluang ada utk match,sy takkan beralah.” Ada nada gurau jgk.Ramai yg ckp itu ini,keluar nas-nas,dalil-dalil semua,baik…that’s good.I appreciate it.If you are such people who wants to say that to me,and you are right in front of me,guess what will I do?I will hug you ( if only you are a girl of course!) with a warm smile on my face and say,”Thanks dear for your good advice.But it’s my life dear,I want to put my own colour in my life.”

Saya dah malas nak berbalas-balas email di mailinglist.Daripada sy memenuhkan inbox org dan mungkin membengangkan org dgn “Balik balik isu ni.Balik balik pasal mixed volley,takde benda lain dah ker?.”,baik sy lps geram atau comment kat blog saya sendiri.Nak baca,sila.Tak nak baca,tak yah.Tiada melanggar hak asasi sesiapa.As you can’t survive without shopping once a month (utk kaki shopping tu) or without going to cinema to watch movies that you like (utk yg kaki panggung tu), so do I.

To conclude,please do not try to determine the colour of my life.If it were to change,it will come from my inner self.Sekian wassalam.